What A Naughty Girl

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Cheers to Sammy for this dirty trick which spikes things out of comfort by implying she’s a naughty girl because of her Uber rating. I’ll give it a try and let you know how it goes. ย Much like putting her on an imaginary points system or making fun of her selfie collection, the magic ingredient is that you’re playfully accusing her, just like her father or college lecturer used to do. Girls love it when you flip the script like this and imply that she’s the one who’s naughty and gone astray.

Spank you very much ๐Ÿ˜‰

Passion Wagon Progress



Don’t laugh…your sister might be inside ๐Ÿ˜‰

The Black Sheep Bandit van conversion is making progress here in damp drizzly Britain. Two fine fellas (with impressive side burns) called Nev and Leon have done the insulation, electrics, floor and wood burner installation. It’s about 50% complete so ready for the open road towards the end of February.

What’s the point of the van? I’ll reveal more in a video series that I’m making but to cut to the chase it’s what they used to call a passion wagon:

“A vehicle used for love making”

Gone are the logistical problems. It’s a bedroom on wheels that I can park in city centres across Europe from Lisbon to Kiev. I can also take it into the mountains and along the coast for some rakish adventures with lucky ladies.


Someone recently commented that my project reminds them of Tarantino’s grindhouse movie “Death Proof” where the stunt driver Mike takes girls in his car for more than a spin. I agree that the van is for pulling women, but not for the bloody carnage that’s in the movie. However it is going to be one hell of a ride.

So. If the van’s a rockin’, don’t come knockin’….

Female Hustlers


Femme fetale – an attractive and seductive women, especially one who will ultimately cause distress to a man who becomes involved with her”

Both men and women are hustlers – men usually for casual sex (without commitment/provisions), women usually for commitment/provisions (without casual sex). Who folds first? That’s why it’s called the Game.

From the dawn of time women have used their sexual allure to hustle men out of money, replicating true signs of attraction with fake signals perfected by strippers, hookers, waitresses and promo girls. I recorded a podcast on this topic of how men fall for these female hustlers all too easily and often.


I’ve just come back from the cinema where I watched the movie “Molly’s Game”ย about the true story of Molly Bloom, an American woman who ran a high-stakes underground poker heist in Los Angeles before being busted by the FBI. The film’s so-so but the original story is worth exploring. Hot girl with sharp hustling skills wrapping men around her finger. The oldest trick in the book.

In my early years of daygame I once picked up a confident blonde girl who had arrived in London from a small Swedish town and had quickly worked her way up the social ladder using a similar set of hustling skills. She’d dated Arabian royalty, a player from Manchester City Football Club and a member of a famous boy band, all within a year of arriving from Sweden.

“Ah, well it’s easy for girls, they’ve just got to open their legs” the usual guy says, not understanding that, just like for men, there’s amateurs and professionals, good and bad hustlers. The Swedish girl would show me her phone messages to prove the point that she wouldn’t actually have sex with lots of the guys, instead like Molly Bloom making them chase her to get what she wanted.

Play or get played. Be the hustler or the mark. The cute smiling barmaid who twirls her hair as she gets you your next beer knows exactly what she’s doing.

Brag More


“It’s not bragging if you can back it up” – Muhammad Ali

It’s a very British (and Northern European / Japanese) thing to be extremely modest. Hide your successes whilst at the same time talking down about yourself. Blend into the crowd. Don’t rise above your station. Keep calm and carry on.

This is at the heart of Mr Nice Guy. He’s ashamed of his ego, he has a low opinion of himself and reeks of low confidence. You can see it in his walk, in his fashion, in his life choices. You can hear it in his voice. He’s vanilla through and through.

Top players and seducers are the polar opposite. Loud, cocky, confident and brash. Their playful arrogance and charisma draws girls in like moths to a flame. Girls love the jock, the jerk, the Chad, the bad boy. They exude I-don’t-give-a-fuck swagger which demonstrates to girls their position at the top of the Sexual Marketplace pyramid.

I’ve often been asked why my videos and books have a braggadocios tone to them. My reply is that if you find them so, then the likelihood is that you’re too timid yourself. You’ve been raised to keep your head down, fit in and accept your lot in life.

A Black Sheep Bandit has to unfuck himself by putting his head above the parapet. For that he’s going to get shot at by others who want to pull him back down. To be a great seducer you’re going to have to be different to others. Your style will be edgier, your voice will be louder, your walk will have more swag, your behaviour will demonstrate the Zero Fucks Given vibe.

Of course, as the quote says, if you’re going to brag then you need to back it up. This is where the hard work comes in. You’re going to have to travel those thousands of miles, collect all those wild experiences for real, put in the thousands of cold approaches, write the books or film the videos. But once you’ve done all that, shout it from the rooftops. Nobody else will do it for you. If you don’t believe you’re a boss, nobody will.

I’ve spoken about the importance of humble bragging when it comes to girls (so you don’t come across as try-hard) and why having a big ego is normal for pickup artists:

Adoration-Level Game


Top level Game, as I hinted at in my “Daygame 3.0” seminar, is not just getting her into bed for the notch, but generating so much desire in her that she’ll get into your bed herself again and again, not wanting to leave. She adores you as her master.ย 

The pickup learning progression goes like this:

  1. You learn how to be socially aware. Basic social skills
  2. You learn to build attraction with girls and date them
  3. You learn to generate arousal with girls and be their loverย 

Step 4 takes you into the Dark Arts of pimp-level game. I’ve told you before to read Iceberg Slim’s autobiography “Pimp: The Story Of My Life” to begin to see how to not only sleep with girls but to make them adore you.

It’s pretty dark stuff because it’s not just about a one-off sexual encounter but how to wield power and control over a girl who worships the ground you walk on. Dark Triad traits (narcissism, Machiavellianism and psychopathy) are turned up to the max, as I discuss in this podcast on the Cult Of Personality.

I’ve thought about doing a talk on the topic of Adoration Game for a long time but am aware that it’s probably not on most guys’ priority lists to become a pimp. However it deserves to be discussed more so I’m writing a chapter on it for my new book “Below The Belt.”ย Let me know your questions below.

Bedroom Boss

Here’s the final part of my 2013 dating seminar where I explain how to get her back to your place for some jiggy jiggy action. You can see lots of the techniques that went on to be featured in my textbook Street Hustle.

To learn how the model’s changed in the last five years then go here.