High Pressure Daygame

Most daygamers avoid approaching girls indoors (stores, cafes, stations etc) because of the added social pressure and increased anxiety. They worry that people are judging or that security will interfere. This is known as the “Spotlight Effect” where we focus too much on what others might be thinking.

Watch as I do a quick & simple approach and number close on a girl buying a bra in Victoria’s Secret. I’m faced with poor English, time pressure, a shop assistant and an onlooker. Yet the fear is just in our minds. We must walk towards the fear.

1 thought on “High Pressure Daygame”

  1. Great video tom
    Thanks for the great stuff you post
    Maybe am wired different I find approaches in shops shopping centres etc much less pressure than Street stops

    Hence must practice Street more

    Like

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