2016 Results

hot_for_teacher_wallpaper_jxhy
Keeping an eye on the results

I know the year’s not over, but apart from a trip to Las Vegas with Craig next week my daygame cold approaching is in hibernation mode until January, while I plough on with editing Stealth Seduction and recharging my batteries. Farewell 2016, it’s been pleasurable.

A common view in the pickup community is that “counting notches” or tracking data is somehow petty and “low vibrational” (as Self Help gurus like to say). In reality, every player I know counts his lays to some degree and is in the Game to primarily get laid (whether they publicise that or not). Don’t Hide Your Dick is a key mindset of mine.

“What you don’t measure you can’t manage,” as the saying goes. I’ve always tracked my results so I can see my progress and spot areas to work on. Daygame is an empircal activity in that without real-world feedback and results, it’s impossible to know if your skill-set is improving.

Here’s my 2016 data for this year:

TOTAL NUMBER OF LAYS: 37

SAME DAY LAYS: 9

FIRST DATE LAYS: 13

SECOND DATE LAYS: 10

MORE THAN TWO DATE LAYS: 5

NATIONALITIES: British, American, Canadian, Colombian, Polish, Iranian, German, Dutch, Ukrainian, Japanese, Moldovan, Thai, Singaporean, Kazakh, Belarusian 

PROFESSIONS: Students, hairdresser, doctor, waitresses, nanny, economist, fitness instructor, chef, model, physicist

YOUNGEST AGE: 17

OLDEST AGE: 31

MEAN AGE: 21

NUMBER WHO TOLD ME ABOUT BOYFRIENDS/HUSBANDS: 20

NEAR MISSES (she’s on my bed, we’re making out, semi-naked): 10

hot-girl-reading-book-3
Anal-ysing the data

15 of the lays will be in my new daygame infield video product Stealth Seduction showing you a wide selection of scenarios and girls, including a 3sum, a park lay, gutter game and same day lays.

I’ve been to Iceland, USA, Canada,  Colombia, Poland, Germany, Czech Republic, Netherlands, Italy, Denmark, Norway, Moldova, Ukraine, Singapore & Japan and daygamed in 23 cities.

There’s been solo daygame expeditions as well as travelling and gaming with wings (Rami, Alex, Ian, Turkish, Craig and Tim). Other trips have been to teach students across the globe.

It’s crucial to remember that in daygame there are more losses than wins. I’ve been “rejected” more than I’ve got laid. I must have been on nearly 100 dates this year after hundreds of sets on the street, in cafes, stores, malls, parks and stations. There is always more “no” than “yes” – that’s how the cards are stacked and the game is played.

Main issues I’ve had this year include pulling too fast and giving off too much of a player vibe which has meant more LMR and less second dates. Because of the travelling I’ve also missed out on closing many leads due to them falling off the radar.

Let me know how you’ve gotten on this year and what you’ll be focussing on in 2017. Reading success stories gives me encouragement to carry on producing content.

Right, enough blog distractions. Back to editing the infields and drinking tea (in between porn, eating and sleeping) 😉

22 thoughts on “2016 Results”

  1. Hey Tom,

    I was thinking of writing you a thank you email but I’ll just leave this comment here for others to see that no matter how much of a hard case you are daygame WILL give you results provided you put in the effort.

    I want to give you a sincere heartfelt thank you for all the free advice you put out there. When I started in daygame a few months ago I was a young early twenties guy with severe social anxiety and have never even been on a date with a girl ever let alone kissed or gotten physical.

    Many PUA coaches say that guys with social anxiety can’t learn daygame. Well I’m living proof that they are wrong. It just means you need to put in more work than other daygamers.

    After reading/watching your content and hitting the streets hard I finally went on a date with a girl for the first time in my life. She was actually a model, ballet dancer and an actress.

    Most regular guys would consider a girl like that way out of their league but a guy like me with literally no experience with women was able to go out with her after applying your advice.

    This is not a lay report but still a huge success seeing where I came from.

    I’m sure the solid results will start rolling in as I practice my daygame skills more.

    Once again. Thanks for all the advice you put out there.

    Like

    1. Im on the same boat as you man. Rarely had experience with girls before starting daygaming. Took me 300 approaches to greatly reduce AA. I went on 10 dates this year and made out with 3 girls. Still no lay yet like you. We have a long way to go. Never give up and keep gaming

      Like

  2. Hey Tom, for when is it going to be released your video product? I hope you publish a lot of failures and misses in the product, I believe we have a lot to learn from mistakes, and please deconstruct in a technical way all the interaction with the girls. You should also a couple of mute videos where you analize the body language. explain in the videos all the techniques such as chapters….for example….Chapter 1: DHV, Chaper 2: Negging…Chapter3 : push-pull….Chapter 5: elephant in the room….Chapter 6: breaking the fourth wall….Chapter 7: time constraint…Chapter 8: shit tests….Chapter 9: social calibration….. in an organized manner and two examples for each topic, as you know, many here are bit autistic. Thank you for your contribution.

    Like

  3. Ive had 9 lays from my first full time year in daygame. I moved to London for the first 11 months and now back in Melbourne because I got homesick. Been on about 10-15 first dates, and about 3/4 of my lays were on the 2nd date. Been doing indirect/direct game which works for me. Ive also given up porn this last month after reading about porn induced sexual dysfunction – its happened to me a couple of times and I think its a real issue. Maybe you could touch on it on a podcast?
    Cheers, Ryan

    Like

    1. Great stuff Ryan, you’re licking the lid of life 😉 For different guys, the “no porn / no fap” thing has different results. For me, “cleaning my rifle” improves my mojo and results.

      Like

      1. Cheers Tom can’t wait for stealth seduction. Yeah I was like you with the porn thing. But sometimes I can’t get aroused with a real life woman and Id say too much porn has affected this. A good book I’m reading is `your brain on porn’ by Gary Wilson. Worth a read!

        Like

  4. 6 lays for me this year but i haven’t be serious in my daygame. Really started in April and when i get a girl I stop daygaming. Main goal for 2017 is daygaming really hard to finally feel in flow (i still feel like a kid who’s painting everywhere and doing random shit when I approach) and let’s say 12 lays.
    Just a dumb question Tom but, what does LMR mean ?

    Like

    1. Nice work Jeremy, don’t “settle” too soon with a girl until you’re happy with your skill.

      LMR is a game acronym for “Last Minute Resistance” – the token silly buggers a girl gives you in the bedroom to playfully test you.

      Like

      1. I know I know but because my “lazy” mind tells me that fucking a nice girl is enough and i don’t need to get rejected again and again I tended to do this. But I promise that’s over !
        Thanks I understand LMR now, when i heard you talking about it in your podcast i searched for the english traduction of “Elemar” ahah

        Like

  5. Hi Tom.

    Great results for this year. I have a quick question for you. On one of your podcasts you spoke about dyeing your grey hair. I am starting to get noticeable amounts of grey coming through and was wondering if you could tell me whether you go to a salon or use a store bought product like Just for Men?

    Cheers,

    Carl

    Like

  6. Tom, this is for me the biggest question of all: How do you keep up the motivation?

    I’ve settled with a girlfriend after one pleasant year in game.

    (Please refer me to the reference in case you’ve already addressed this issue somewhere else.)

    Thanks

    Like

  7. Hello Tom, is white hairs a real issue? I am 46 and I have lots of them.
    After I met you in Toronto Q&A I started day game seriously. one girl who was 20 years old rejected me saying I have gray hair so I must a lot older and it was the reason she rejected me.
    Reza

    Like

  8. ZAK DAYGAME DATE DATA 2016

    TOTAL DATES AIM: 40
    TOTAL KISS AIM: 20
    TOTAL LAYS AIM: 5

    – Yingxia Daygame LOCAL
    – Victoria Instant Daygame Gutter Date Russian Hippie (LMR)
    – Kat Instant Daygame Gutter Date Russian (KISS) (LMR)
    – Tracy Instant Daygame Gutter Date China
    – Vietnam Girl Instant Daygame Date Viet (LMR)
    – Boram Instant Daygame Date Korean
    – Clara Daygame LOCAL
    – Mila Daygame Russian
    – Puteri Instant Daygame Gutter Date LOCAL
    – Joyce Instant Daygame Gutter Date China (LMR)
    – Siti TINDER Date LOCAL
    – Alicia Instant Daygame Date Coffeeshop LOCAL
    – Tracy Instant Daygame Gutter Second Date China
    – Rita Instant Daygame Gutter Date Morocco/France
    – Merve Daygame Date Turkish
    – Mia Daygame Instant Date LOCAL baker
    – Mila Daygame Russian (KISS ON FIRST DATE) (SEX)
    – Aubrey Daygame Hong Kong (KISS ON CHEEKS) (LMR)
    – Soon Instant Daygame Gutter Date Korean
    – Julia Daygame German DOUBLE DATE (KISS ON CHEEKS)
    – Anastasia Daygame Ukraine Instant Date (HAND HOLD)
    – Zyan Instant Daygame Date Gutter Msia Chi (HAND HOLD)
    – Julia Instant Daygame Date Ukraine (HUG) (FAILED 2ND DATE)
    – Juliana Instant Daygame Date LOCAL (HAND HOLDING)
    – Andrea Koh Instant Daygame Date Msian (HUG)
    – Emma Daygame Date Russian (KISS)
    – Izumi Daygame Date Japan (KISS ON CHEEKS) (HAND HOLD) (LMR)
    – Elaiza Daygame Date Italian (KISS ON CHEEKS) (HAND HOLD)
    – Julia Daygame German Second Date (HAND HOLD)
    – Tomo Daygame Gutter Date (KISS ON CHEEKS)
    – Ilkhoo Daygame Date Korean (STOLE MY MONEY)
    – Diyana TINDER Date LOCAL (KISS ON FIRST DATE) (SEX)
    – Monique Daygame Date China (KISS ON CHEEKS) (HAND HOLD)
    – Siti TINDER Date LOCAL (KISS ON FIRST DATE) (SEX)
    – Chrysan Daygame Date LOCAL
    – Finish girl Instant Date gutter (KISS)
    – Han Korean Instant Date gutter
    – Alexia Daygame Swiss French (KISS ON CHEEKS)

    TOTAL NUMBER OF DATES: 38
    TOTAL NUMBER OF COLD APPROACH DATES: 35
    TOTAL NUMBER OF TINDER DATES: 3

    FOREIGN GIRLS: 28
    LOCAL GIRLS: 10

    TOTAL LAYS: 3

    FIRST DATE LAYS: 1

    SECOND DATE LAYS: 2

    TOTAL KISSES/MAKEOUTS: 6

    TOTAL LMR GIRLS WHEN PULLING: 6

    Lessons learnt

    1) I’m not pushing hard enough & still playing it safe sexually & with my escalation (Nice guy habits or playing it safe)

    2) Having a place to pull is key as right now I’m still living with my parents but I focused more on tourists who have hotels or apartments

    3) My vibe and energy gives off a more boyfriend vibe after the lay so there is something there that needs to be change. I think I need to be more cocky with the way I bring myself

    Hey Tom , call me crazy but I realised putting a realistic goal definitely helped in the entire 2016 year. I had a purpose to go out and keep gaming for new leads. Since you coached me in Singapore, my goal had always been to practice more on dates & getting kisses. To move from social nice guy to sexual lover. I’m happy that I’m more leading & getting kisses & escalating much easily now. But there still much to learn till I get consistency.

    Like

  9. 6 Lays and 3 on Tinder. Finally I have 18 Lays
    Next year i push it to 27 lays by doing 7x per week daygame and tinder.

    Like

  10. Hi Tom,

    Have a great 2017, just want you to know that I learn a lot from you. I started to do daygame in May of 2016 and am very happy with how I’ve progressed so far. However, I look at the stuff you do and feel like I still have a long way to go… hence the blog I started, which hopefully will help me stay motivated and fresh and eager to learn more.

    2016 was actually the year of my life with the best numbers (quantity and quality), although most of them came from online ‘game’, followed by hostel game (what kind of game is hostel game?!), because I’m backpacking around the world. I had around 30/35 lays, only 4 of those from daygame. I’ve gotten really good at dates, with a high percentage of f-closes, but my daygame needs work and my text game is seriously shit, haha.

    Your life story is an inspiration, keep going 🙂

    Like

Leave a Reply

Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in:

WordPress.com Logo

You are commenting using your WordPress.com account. Log Out / Change )

Twitter picture

You are commenting using your Twitter account. Log Out / Change )

Facebook photo

You are commenting using your Facebook account. Log Out / Change )

Google+ photo

You are commenting using your Google+ account. Log Out / Change )

Connecting to %s