Madam Cock Tease

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Just venting on here and capturing in writing what just happened for posterity. I’ve been in this same scenario dozens of times in my pickup journey but this one was a cock tease who seemed so proficient for her age which I’ll remember.

Rain stopped play for the last two days of my daygame expedition in this Ukrainian city. Last night I went on a first date with a 21 year old hipster barista from the coffee shop I’ve been going to daily. She snatched the frame off the bat and took me to her favourite dive bar that was full of her friends. After an hour I got her to a second venue close to my house but her mum called and told her to come home to walk the dog. Cue the blue balls.

Today it was grey and drizzly. I was avoiding any more number collecting as I knew I was moving on tomorrow and didn’t want to have a reason to return. Instead I went for a walk in the city parks and started work on my new book.

Around 6pm as I headed back to my apartment I spotted a very hot girl standing outside a restaurant smiling to herself. On auto-pilot I approached and her eyes sparkled immediately. Bingo. She took down the hood of her coat to reveal a stunning face on a petite body. 17 years old. Above average English. Very into it. On her way home. Hallelujah.

I’ve been doing daygame long enough to have a finely tuned Same Day Lay radar, and all lights were flashing green with this girl. The vibe was just so sexual from the start.

Thanks to the cold and the light drizzle, the bounce across the road to a cellar bar was easy. She sat opposite me and told me about her modelling career as well as her studies. As I looked at her Instagram pictures on her phone I tried to hide my “holy Jesus!” expression underneath a slightly disinterested front. Underwear modelling, swimwear modelling, a Zara billboard shoot…

Red light number one was when she went to order a meal as we ordered the beers from the waitress. I stopped her and said I’d eaten, but that later she could have something in my kitchen. She sulked and said her guy friends “usually buy her dinners.” I made a mental note of Princess Behaviour and changed the topic.

As I checked her fingers for tattoos and rings, she held onto my hands and didn’t budge. She texted her mum to say she was going to be late home. It was looking very on.

Red light number two was when she said she’d had a rich boyfriend from New York and that she’d met “many foreign guys” in the city “only as friends.” I gave her the whole speech about why men and women can’t be friends, and she grinned playfully.

The bounce out of the bar was easy. She was talking about last night’s Eurovision and I said we could watch it on my laptop. We held hands as we walked the two minutes down to my apartment. As we climbed the stairs she was making jokes about her addiction to “shit pop music, coffee…and masturbation.” Done deal, I thought, surely.

Inside the apartment she sat straight on my bed and took charge of the laptop. I let her find the Eurovision replay while I went for a pee (and did my pre-lay ritual of taking off my belt, pocketing a condom and removing my watch and rings).

Together on the bed we hugged as we watched the god-awful competition. Every few minutes I tried to kiss her or spoon a bit closer but she rejected the advances. Rather than reacting I just rolled off, carried on watching the video and then trying again in a while.

Her phone was bleeping and buzzing endlessly. She’d check it for a second or two to see a flood of notifications from her texts, Whatsapp, Facebook, Instagram and more, and then put it down for a minute or so. Again, I let it slide for a while as I didn’t want to be reactive.

Suddenly her phone rang. A guy was on the other end. She’d told me she was single but this from the tone of her voice this was clearly a guy in her fuck buddy rotation. She gestured for me to not make a noise as she chatted to him in Russian – for one minute, then three, then five….

I got up and made myself a drink, ignoring her games. When I came back she was still talking to him. I could feel the Royal Flush moment building and building inside of me (when I was going to lay down my boundaries and put my cards on the table to reset the frame).

Finally she hung up and we went back to semi-cuddling. Still she rejected my kiss attempts or anything further. Now she was making a point of checking every single notification arriving on her phone by the second (and purposefully showing me them).

It’s hard to describe just how many messages from thirsty needy guys a young hot girl gets. They were pouring in across many different messaging services. Guys sending selfies, emoticons and virtual roses. One guy sent an mp3 clip of him playing a guitar for her. She was laughing as she explained how she met some of them for free English lessons, restaurant trips or club entrance.

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I gave it one last shot, trying to kiss her again but still nothing. “You will pay for my taxi when I want one?” she grinned. “All my male friends do that for me…”

That was it. Time for B.O.B (“Boundaries On Bullshit). I told her that it was rude to be on her phone all the time in front of me. She just laughed and said she had to keep up with all her guys. I told her she was playing games and that she knew she was teasing men.

“Get your things and go” I said, burning it all to the ground. “You know exactly what you’re doing.” I walked over to the front door and opened it for it, gesturing her to leave.

“Fuck you!” she shouted as she slammed the door and vanished into the night.

Blue balls, second night in a row. You have to laugh or cry. It’s all par for the course.

16 thoughts on “Madam Cock Tease”

  1. Hard not to be reactive in such an instance. Sometimes I feel like it’s better to do what a lot of girls do and make a white lie about why she needs to go (your friend just texted you and is in hospital or something), especially if you know you’re going to flip shit. Better to not deal with the negative energy if you feel all is lost.

    But, like you’ve said many times Tom, maybe this was a move that will get her to boomerang back?

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    1. It’s tough love. Every good parent, teacher or puppy trainer knows that enforcing boundaries is something they’ll thank you for long term. The Nice Guy approach is lose-lose.

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    1. I agree. This girl will not behave like this when she is 25 or so. I go for women at least in ther 20’s as you usualy get some banter and mental joy with them as well. All I know is the stress of dealing with a girl of 17 would not outweigh the joy of sex for me, which is usually also very vanilla and boring with super young girls… For me, I would happily drop a point in the quality of girls if it meant they can stimulate me with there humour or banter…that gets me hard just as much..know what I mean?

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  2. Good on you for showing her the door and how to use it. I had an entire relationship where some crazy, narcissistic wench would try to taunt me with the attention she got from men. I should have cut that off as quickly as you did.

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  3. Well done Tom! I actually think what Tom did here was right. I’ve personally done this lots of times (especially with girls I’ve collected from gutter game). Yes I get the point that, it leaves bad energy BUT if you know you’re not going to see the girl again, at least you’ve done the next player a little bit of a favour.
    Believe me, the way Tom kicked her out will leave an impression on this little 17yr old.
    So when she’s in bed with the next guy trying to seduce her, she will think twice about playing silly buggers like that again.
    So well done Tom. I’m glad you put her in her place. As you said she knew what she was doing so to be honest, she deserved the lesson she got.
    Easy come, easy go uncle Tom! Keep hustlin’

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  4. Tom, I agree. But would it have been an option to just leave her in the room. Go about working on your book. Let her come to you as you lay back. Let her work for your attention. Let her enjoy the game of distracting you from your work? But maybe your option was more powerful. In any case, you have the abundance to do whatever the fuck you want!!!

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  5. This really made an interesting read. I think it’s always easy to assume you did something wrong. We’re (me and my friends) forever pouring over the detail and thinking how we could do things differently.

    A lot of the time it’s just common sense. I’ve met a few girls like this one and reading this my only regret is not telling some of them to fuck off sooner.

    Well done Tom.

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  6. Boundaries are a must, good on you for keeping the frame, despite the hotness.
    On a personal note, I had to do the royal flush on a 20yr old Russian. It was midnight and she wanted me to walk her home 25mins away. I told her no, and she got worried and upset, I offered to book an uber or walk her to the metro as it was next door, but she was too scared to get in a cab by herself or take the metro, She insisted on walking…
    In the end i walked her through the busiest part of town and left her walking along the main road by herself for the remanding 10min walk, as i left her she said we are nearly there and said “don’t you want a tour” by this point her princess behavior had completely drained my energy and i got reactive and walked off, as i walked in a foul mood she shouted “thanks for the drink, i had a nice evening”
    Did i do the right thing or should i have just let her find her own way home?

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  7. Good move Tom. I feel this and it happened to me too (a lil bit differently). Keep it up with posting these reports they are great!

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