Here’s an email I received today from a guy in Germany. The message reads as follows:
“Tom, I don’t know if you ever gonna read this email because I can only imagine how much mails you are getting on average every day but I need someone to tell my story.
I’m a 24 year old guy from Germany and I just broke up with my first real girlfriend of 4 years a few hours ago because of you.
As you can imagine I was in full ‘Beta-Male-Provider-Mode’ without even knowing. We lived together, had a dog and even drove to work together every day. We seemed just like the perfect couple from outside, but from the inside something felt wrong for me. I couldn’t identify it for a long time but basically – if I’m really, really honest with myself – it all came down to one very simple thing: no sex.
At first I was angry at myself for having this feeling and was telling myself: ‘This can’t be right. Everybody else I know is in a relationship or marriage and they seem happy. Why isn’t this working for me? Have they all figured it out but me?’
Looking for answers / advice online I found your content and it is literally changing my life. I now understand:
- why men/women behave how they behave
- why men need sex regularly and women don’t
- why most men are unhappy in their sexless-relationships and/or marriages but still stay in it
- why it is so difficult (if not impossible) to keep a crazy, wild and passionate sex life with the same partner for a long time
- and – most importantly – why I felt so unhappy
After reading all of your blog posts and watching all of your videos I’m now trying to accept these harsh ‘red pill’ truths and use them for my own good. I don’t want to be unhappy and I don’t want to end as a 40 year old married guy thinking about ‘what could have been if…’ And – most importantly – I don’t want to hide my dick anymore, and do things (with girls) that make me happy.
So, long story short, I can sum this email up for you in just two words. THANK YOU.
I don’t know if you know what impact you have on people but I can assure you it’s huge. Maybe our life-paths will collide one day so I can thank you in person Tom.”
Emails like that are what make me keep doing what I do, as cliched as that sounds. I’ve feasted at the Secret Society banquet long enough – now it’s time to help pull other guys over the castle walls.
My website and wider content all comes down to the central tenant of wanting men (me included) to be FREE and HAPPY. I’m genuinely humbled when I read emails like the one above as it means the message/solutions are getting out there.