What’s the most fundamental concept in Game? I’d argue it’s fractionation – learning when to pull and when to push. When to be hot and when to be cold. When to reel in and when to release. Too much of either will ruin the pickup. A masterful seducer will have the balance just right (calibration) through infield experience.
My 2014 seminar “Badass Buddha” was on this single idea and how it applies to Game from a micro to a macro level. Today’s daygame podcast covers the key points from this talk and explains how it applies to getting a girl to chase you.