Does the gazelle ask the lion to “not use manipulation”? Does one football team ask the other to “be themselves” and not use tactics and strategies? Does life on Earth follow idealistic or realistic properties?
The comment left on one of my videos is common of the Nice Guy mindset who wants the world to “play fair.” By shaming pickup as “immoral,” “sneaky” and “manipulative” then such guys are misunderstanding the realities of the world and getting burnt because of it.
In the past I’ve explained this is why I disagree with the “radical honesty” doctrines in books like Mark Manson’s “Models.” It’s Purple (or even Blue) Pill dream world thinking in that it ignores the central tenants of biology. Play or get played. Hustle or be hustled.
As much as we all wish the world was based on equalism, harmony and love, biological realities wake us up. Girls have a sexual strategy just like guys. Girls tell as many (if not more) lies as you to try and win. The female manipulation toolkit is just as advanced as any top player – push up bras, makeup, airbrushed selfies, stealth plate spinning, Secret Society liaisons….the Nice Guy would be shocked to know what she’s up to.
The world is not fair. Life is a game. Either learn the rules and level up or forever be at the mercy of those who have.