Pour yourself a whiskey, sit by the flickering fire and count your winnings from this year’s hustling. Maybe you keep daygame data like me of the approaches, dates and lays you experienced in the past 12 months. Now’s a good time to crunch the numbers and reflect on how things went. And then have another whiskey to either celebrate or commiserate.
Here’s my key vitals for 2017:
Approaches: Between 950 & 1150 (exact number not known)
First Dates: 82 (including instant dates)
New Notches: 32 (daygame only)
I therefore got “rejected” around 1000 times in some form. My date-to-lay ratio was weaker than in previous years because I pulled too hard on many first dates and burnt good leads through lack of patience.
11 of the notches were Same Day Lays. 6 of the notches happened on the month-long world tour. The largest amount of dates I went on with one girl to get the notch was five.
Highlights were a dreamy Canadian in Sydney, a webcam porn star in Poland, a wild Colombian model and an enigmatic Japanese model.
There are far more “failures” than wins in pickup as I’ve often said. The data shows I got rejected over thirty times more than I succeeded. There were a greater number of blue balls near-miss stories this year than I’m used to because of the over pulling, the laziness with long game and periods of daygame burnout where my vibe went to shit.
In this week’s podcast I’ll go over some of those failure stories from this year and what I’m going to change about my daygame for next year. Let me know how you got on, if your ratios improved and what you’re going to focus on in your 2018 naughtiness.