Stop Hunting, Start Fishing

Stop Hunting, Start Fishing - Daygame To

The way to a man’s heart is through his fly

Too many guys are doing daygame pickup to “hunt” for a girlfriend. Spending days, weeks and months pursuing one girl in the hope of their big catch which will mean they don’t have to be out in the cold anymore. This gives them an air of neediness (because of their scarcity) which she can sense.

In reality a seducer is a fishermen who is casting his lines without obsessing over any one fish. He does it for pleasure as much as the result, often throwing back the fish once he’s reeled it in. Ironically this sometimes makes the fish jump in his boat without him doing a thing.

Stop Hunting, Start Fishing - Daygame To

In hunting-for-a-girlfriend mode you’re actually slowing things down and making it much harder. Auditioning to be a girl’s boyfriend takes ages and it’s a monumental task, whereas demonstrating that you’re a carefree lover leads to fast no-strings sex.

So make 2018 the year when you stop obsessing over one girl and cast out multiple fishing lines instead to see what bites. Lean back in your camping chair with a beer in your hand and enjoy being out of the house. There’ll be good days with lots of hook points and bad days with no catches but that’s the pleasure of it.

3 thoughts on “Stop Hunting, Start Fishing”

  1. Amen. Spinning plates helps you get that freedom from outcome. Plus, daygame is supposed to be fun. Nowadays I sometimes go into set and end up leaving after a chat without even going for the number. If I don’t feel a strong pull towards the girl I just let her go with a smile… another girl will surely come along some other time.

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