“I have a boyfriend”

Just because there’s a goalie doesn’t mean you can’t score 😉


A DIY video from my Arabian travels on one of the most common sticking points for guys new to Game. What do you do when the girl mentions another guy in her life?

9 thoughts on ““I have a boyfriend””

  1. Hey Tom. I have to say that this is the only thing where my experience of daygame doesn’t seem to match yours at all. I can usually get numbers from girls with boyfriends but they never come out for a day 2. Even with sets that I think were solid. When the love bubble pops they seem to realise that they shouldn’t be doing what they’re doing. Maybe I need tighter game… Or maybe I should be pinging them over text for a longer period… do you find that in some countries girls with boyfriends are harder to game than in others? Cheers

    1. You’re most likely daygaming in “Boyfriend Mode” so the girl sees you as wanting to date her. To get girls in the Secret Society you have to give off the player/lover vibe from the start. Watch my “Daygame 3.0” talk to see the difference.

    2. try to speak less, and use your eyes, tonality to release your inner beast (playboy’s vibe)
      if you are doing bf daygame, chances are u’re qualifying/vibing quite much about yourself during mid section of LDM

  2. This has nothing to do with your video but…

    I have been practicing game using the kind of methods you teach for a few months now. I have gotten five plus numbers and in every case the girl did not reply to the first text at all. In two of the interactions, the girl was bieng flirty with me by the end, without me iniating physical contact. In the most recsnt one the girl brought up ‘going to dinner’ without my having mentioned anything about it. All the girls were under 25. Not a single one of them replied at all after the initial meeting. Might you have any idea why this is?

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