Fair point Jake, I haven’t defined what a Black Sheep Bandit is in concrete terms up till now. Yes, it’s about freedom from the herd and holding the frame but we can be more precise.
A sheep has four legs (last time I checked, which is quite often if you’re Welsh). And a Black Sheep Bandit matches four criteria:
1. He is self-employed (no boss or company hierarchy to follow)
2. He can get girls (without paying or feeding off scraps) but is not monogamous
3. He lives where he wants (so is non-monogamous with places)
4. He spends his time doing what he wants more than working
That’s it in a nutshell. Of course there’s a lot more detail to each point and meta mindsets that are needed to pull all four off, but for now that’s enough to know how much freedom you have in your present situation.
Married or in a monogamous relationship – not a Black Sheep Bandit.
Can’t get girls and have no dating options – not a Black Sheep Bandit.
Have a boss breathing down your neck – not a Black Sheep Bandit.
Stuck in a city with a mortgage – not a Black Sheep Bandit
Working way more than doing hobbies – not a Black Sheep Bandit