Anti-Provider Song

Gather round the fire for a Torero tune teaching you kids about why you need to be the lover, not the provider.

“It Ain’t Me Babe” (Dylan) Lyrics:

Go away from my window,
Leave at your own chosen speed.
I’m not the one you want, babe,
I’m not the one you need.

You say you’re lookin’ for someone,
Who’s never weak but always strong,
To protect you and defend you,
Whether you are right or wrong,

Someone to open each and every door,
But it ain’t me, babe,
No, no, no, it ain’t me, babe,
It ain’t me you’re lookin’ for, babe.

Go lightly from the ledge, babe,
Go lightly on the ground.
I’m not the one you want, babe,
I’ll only let you down.

You say you’re lookin’ for someone,
Who’ll promise never to part,
Someone to close his eyes for you,
Someone to close his heart,

Someone to die for you and more,
But it ain’t me, babe,
No, no, no, it ain’t me, babe,
It ain’t me you’re lookin’ for, babe.

 

Draw The Line

I’m back in Europe and explaining why boundaries need to be drawn early in Game. Setting the right frame and establishing the correct male-female polarity needs to be done from the off, as every good teacher or parent knows.

To learn more about frame control and becoming the lover rather than the provider, check out my book Street Hustle which goes through these topics in detail.