Most daygamers avoid approaching girls indoors (stores, cafes, stations etc) because of the added social pressure and increased anxiety. They worry that people are judging or that security will interfere. This is known as the “Spotlight Effect” where we focus too much on what others might be thinking.
Watch as I do a quick & simple approach and number close on a girl buying a bra in Victoria’s Secret. I’m faced with poor English, time pressure, a shop assistant and an onlooker. Yet the fear is just in our minds. We must walk towards the fear.
Get your pen and paper ready. My “Frame Test” quiz is about to commence. No cheating. Answers at the end of the video 😉
In today’s vlog I explain how daygame “vibe” needs to be built up infield. This doesn’t just mean daily, but monthly and across the whole year. What feels scripted and robotic at first soon becomes free-flowing and spontaneous as your vibe builds.
Learn some drills to help with this in my textbook “Street Hustle.”
Come say hello, have a beer and meet New York City daygame wings. This Friday, 6.30pm, Union Square. Drop me an email (firstname.lastname@example.org) if you know of a venue nearby where we can gather.
A quick reminder about getting your bachelor pad in order before a date. It doesn’t need to be plush, just needing privacy and the right mood.
Watch my “Anti-Provider” home logistics video from Moscow to show why it’s not what you’ve got, but what you do with it 😉
In today’s podcast I lift the lid on the “Secret Society”…a fundamental concept in pickup and daygame. What do the sex lives of men and women really look like? Why do we cheat? How come only some guys are players? What do you have to do to get in?
Dzień Dobry from Zakopany in Poland. I’ve taken a few days off daygame to hit the slopes with an adventurous girl and my compadre Mr A. It’s important to zoom out and dive into other flow states other than Street Hustling, remembering that life is beautiful, life is short and it needs to be grabbed by the horns!
I’m in Poland on my way to New York City, talking about why it’s so important to inject colour and warmth into your cold approach pickup. Sounding like a monochrome robot will lead to instant blowouts and poor sets. Remember that “what you feel, she feels.”
In Episode 51 from central Europe I discuss what pickup calibration is, and why it’s so important for daygame. Download this and all the other podcasts here.
Watch me daygame infield demonstrating how to Stack after the Open in the London Daygame Model. Notice how it’s the Spikes that spark the attraction and keep it from being Mr Nice Guy. Learn how to do this yourself by following the steps in my textbook Street Hustle.