High Pressure Daygame

Most daygamers avoid approaching girls indoors (stores, cafes, stations etc) because of the added social pressure and increased anxiety. They worry that people are judging or that security will interfere. This is known as the “Spotlight Effect” where we focus too much on what others might be thinking.

Watch as I do a quick & simple approach and number close on a girl buying a bra in Victoria’s Secret. I’m faced with poor English, time pressure, a shop assistant and an onlooker. Yet the fear is just in our minds. We must walk towards the fear.

Natural Highs

Dzień Dobry from Zakopany in Poland. I’ve taken a few days off daygame to hit the slopes with an adventurous girl and my compadre Mr A. It’s important to zoom out and dive into other flow states other than Street Hustling, remembering that life is beautiful, life is short and it needs to be grabbed by the horns!